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As people become older, some ADHD sufferers experience fewer symptoms, but some adults still struggle with significant symptoms that affect their day-to-day functioning.
At age 41, Fahadh received a diagnosis of ADHD. (Image: Instagram)
Prominent actors of the Malayalam cinema industry, Nazriya Nazim and Fahadh Faasil, have been together since 2014. Recently, the couple went through a challenging period in their personal life when Fahadh was diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD).
Nazriya talked about their life after Fahadh’s illness in an interview with Manorama Online and said that she started noticing changes in the actor’s behaviour long before his official diagnosis.
“Fahadh has ADHD, but I started living with Shanu (Fahadh) before we were aware of this condition,” Nazriya said.
The actress added that she had been coping with his personality peculiarities for a while, and they eventually became a part of their lives.
She further mentioned that while the diagnosis may have helped increase her patience, their lives have not changed in any other significant way.
“Now that we know about the condition, I may have become a little more patient, but other than that, nothing in our life has changed,” Nazriya said.
Understanding ADHD
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With age, some people with ADHD experience fewer symptoms. However, many adults continue to struggle with significant symptoms that impact their daily functioning.
The primary symptoms of adult ADHD may include restlessness, impulsivity, and difficulty focusing. These symptoms can vary in intensity, ranging from moderate to severe.
Tips To Support Your Partner With ADHD
- Improve Your Communication:ADHD is characterised by traits such as forgetfulness and difficulty focusing, which can lead to misunderstandings, particularly if the other party feels blamed. It is advisable to communicate more frequently and address concerns in a less accusatory manner.
- Putting Your Strengths First:ADHD frequently manifests as exceptional creativity and problem-solving abilities in addition to peculiarities in personality. Playing to their skills and handling obligations so that your partner feels required is the best course of action.
- Focus On Patience And Understanding:ADHD can be very overwhelming at times and it is vital to recognise that it is not a choice. Focusing on your partner’s intentions rather than their behaviour and creating a more loving and caring atmosphere are recommended. Even though dissatisfaction is rather common, preserving empathy ought to come first.
- Respect Boundaries And Personal Differences:Each person with ADHD has a different approach to managing the disorder, and while organisational tools and reminders may be helpful to one, they may be overwhelming to others. Therefore, it’s critical to sit down and discuss what works and what doesn’t work for your partner.
- Finding Solution:Supporting your partner is a natural desire, but it’s impossible to predict every potential issue. Moreover, it’s neither practical nor healthy to oversee every aspect of their life. Instead, adopting a “take it as it comes” mindset can be more effective. Address any issues as they arise and work together to find solutions.
